Shamalie’s journey with the Southern Migrant and Refugee Centre (SMRC) began during a challenging period in her life. After her husband suffered multiple health crises, including a stroke and brain surgery, Shamalie became his full-time carer.

The sudden responsibility left her feeling overwhelmed and isolated. “I felt like I can’t do this, this is too much for me,” she recalls.

Her connection with SMRC started when she was invited to join The Hive community garden, a project that supports carers through nature and social engagement. Shamalie decided to participate and was immediately uplifted by the welcoming environment. “When we come here, we’re all garden lovers, we’re all nature lovers. I feel so happy, like I’m part of it.” Gardening in the peaceful surroundings provided her with a sense of calm and relief. “It’s so peaceful, it just cleans my mind. Like meditation.”

In addition to her involvement in the garden, Shamalie received counselling through SMRC’s Support for Carers Program, helping her manage the emotional challenges of caregiving. “It’s a big emotional support I get,” she explains. “If I come walking with a heavy heart, I can talk to them. That’s helped me a lot.”

Shamalie says SMRC services have provided emotional and practical support, and a sense of community. “We’re all human. We all have problems. It’s not just me.” Now, Shamalie feels more at peace and looks forward to helping others who may be in similar situations. “If I can help somebody, if I can talk to somebody and tell them, refer them to SMRC, I’d be happy to do that.”